Setting up the date is one of the most challenging aspects of dating for a lot of women when they first encounter the concept of stepping back and letting the man take the lead. Let's look at an example sent to me by a client (I'll call her Josie - not her real name). They met online and he planned the first date quite well and it all looked quite good when he got in touch the next day asking to meet again, suggesting dinner. Here is the exchange of texts from the point where